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		<title>Comment on Favorite music at the moment by milli</title>
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		<dc:creator>milli</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Jan 2011 17:38:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice Rich, will definitely check it out! Perfect for a rainy day, or a sunny one for that... Thank&#039;s</description>
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		<title>Comment on Reasons why squat parties are better by Bajeskraker</title>
		<link>http://www.richardforreal.com/2010/09/reasons-why-squat-parties-are-better/comment-page-1/#comment-1279</link>
		<dc:creator>Bajeskraker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Sep 2010 17:55:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Richard!
You seem enthusiast about squatish stuff...
You might like to visit ours on saturday, live music all afternoon and evening, cosy mellow atmosphere...
Invite your friends too!
www.bajesdorp.nl
Grtzzzz</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Richard!<br />
You seem enthusiast about squatish stuff&#8230;<br />
You might like to visit ours on saturday, live music all afternoon and evening, cosy mellow atmosphere&#8230;<br />
Invite your friends too!<br />
<a href="http://www.bajesdorp.nl" rel="nofollow">http://www.bajesdorp.nl</a><br />
Grtzzzz</p>
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		<title>Comment on Notes from GTD unmeeting by Richard</title>
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		<dc:creator>Richard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Apr 2010 08:59:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great! Thanks for the namedropping! Really nice that you could come. I&#039;ll let you know next time, whenever that&#039;ll be.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great! Thanks for the namedropping! Really nice that you could come. I&#8217;ll let you know next time, whenever that&#8217;ll be.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Notes from GTD unmeeting by Simon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Simon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Apr 2010 06:47:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It was a really nice unmeeting yesterday, I enjoyed it 100%. The beers name is Maredsous. 
By the way, my quotes looks even better in english.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It was a really nice unmeeting yesterday, I enjoyed it 100%. The beers name is Maredsous.<br />
By the way, my quotes looks even better in english.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Thouhts after Enjoy[ing] Poverty by Richard</title>
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		<dc:creator>Richard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Apr 2010 21:47:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, that&#039;s an awesome comment. Thanks Albert! Like you say, what it comes down to is changing people&#039;s behavior in the system rather than changing the system. One of the greatest realizations, which may not ever be fully achieved, is how interconnected everything is. The market share of fair trade labeled coffee that you mention makes one ashamed of being Swedish. But I believe we need to find a stronger and more positive motivation than shame to change our behavior and pay more. As you point out, we need a new kind of global respect for labor. Since we are all members of the same global economic society, we should all have the same basic market-derived rights. &quot;Equal partners in the same game&quot;, that&#039;s a really good summary of what we should strive for.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, that&#8217;s an awesome comment. Thanks Albert! Like you say, what it comes down to is changing people&#8217;s behavior in the system rather than changing the system. One of the greatest realizations, which may not ever be fully achieved, is how interconnected everything is. The market share of fair trade labeled coffee that you mention makes one ashamed of being Swedish. But I believe we need to find a stronger and more positive motivation than shame to change our behavior and pay more. As you point out, we need a new kind of global respect for labor. Since we are all members of the same global economic society, we should all have the same basic market-derived rights. &#8220;Equal partners in the same game&#8221;, that&#8217;s a really good summary of what we should strive for.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Thouhts after Enjoy[ing] Poverty by Albert</title>
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		<dc:creator>Albert</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Apr 2010 14:35:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The message from &quot;Enjoy Poverty&quot; for me was that, whatever help we might send to the so called low income countries, it only makes us better off and not the recipients. Why? Well, we get a good feeling from helping somebody. It makes us feel greater that we are. We contribute beyond ourselves. But, does it really change the lives of the billions of people that we target with our help? It is as with unemployment benefits - unless the person starts working on her own, her life situation will not change. It will just stay the same all the time. The person has to get active first. And, there should be a range of choices. Otherwise all activity might be useless.

What the Western World sends to Africa is an unemployment benefit. What effect does it have? It creates a dependency. It creates victim mentality. How does a person feel that completely depends on somebody&#039;s well-willing? Good? Most people derive their self esteem from what they do themselves, with their own hands/heads. And not from gifts. So, if we really wanted to help we should be serious about helping. And this is only possible if its not US and THEM, but if we regard ourselves as equal partners in the same game.

However, at the moment we (the West) have way more bargaining power then the rest of the world. Some countries are quickly catching up - Brazil, India, China, Indonesia, South Africa. They are not doing well because we want it, but because they are actively creating their new futures. They chose their OWN ways. They increase their bargaining power and this way we HAVE TO listen to them even if we dont want. For the rest the rule is still on our side: its either our way or the highway.

The victim mentality, that we actively foster with our gifts, together with the sense of powerlessness, of not being able to change a thing creates apathy. Somebody who has been on unemployment benefits for 10 years might eventually give up looking for new things and accept the status quo. 

What can we do? 

The road to hell is plastered with good intentions. We should keep this in mind when we want to help. 

Richard mentioned education (us coming to them and educating them), empowerment (locals who &quot;made it&quot; in the West coming back and teaching leadership to the new generations) and our awareness of what we consume (asking companies for accountability of their actions).

What works?

Education is good, but one should be careful. We bring our education, but is it the most relevant education for them? We might teach high-tech engineers who then wont have any chances to get employment back home since there is no high tech. The Chinese government recognized this problem and focuses a lot on agricultural efficiency education. Without food there can be now rise in living standards. Once you solve this problem you can begin thinking about the rest. Here the role of other developing countries is crucial - trade between China and the African countries is far more important since they are much closer regarding income levels. The West buys coffee and oil in Africa, but can Africa afford our medicine/computers/machines? 

Empowerment is good too, but it is still too little being done. Most people prefer to stay in the West once they &quot;made it&quot;. Who want to go back to hopelessness? 

Awareness - this is the most powerful tool. When it became public that Nike is producing the shoes in sweat-shops the pressure from the consumers in the West actually forced Nike to introduces social responsibility. This could work with all the other products too. The people who grow our coffee and chocolate, who sew our jeans and shirts and who make our IKEA stuff should be able to afford a decent living. They actually do a decent job. But there are only few people in the West who care about such issues.

Fair Trade coffee has a market share of not more than 10% in Sweden. That means that 90% of our coffee most probably was not produced under decent living conditions. And this goes for many many consumption products. When it comes to money we tend to decide rationally. And rationality here is just what is the cheapest. 

So, if we really wanted to help lifting those countries out of poverty we should start to truly care about them. And care is not giving a gift now and then. But to respect the person as an equal trading partner. And to be prepared to pay a higher price for the stuff that brings you enjoyment in your every day life. That way, both parts might benefit equally.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The message from &#8220;Enjoy Poverty&#8221; for me was that, whatever help we might send to the so called low income countries, it only makes us better off and not the recipients. Why? Well, we get a good feeling from helping somebody. It makes us feel greater that we are. We contribute beyond ourselves. But, does it really change the lives of the billions of people that we target with our help? It is as with unemployment benefits &#8211; unless the person starts working on her own, her life situation will not change. It will just stay the same all the time. The person has to get active first. And, there should be a range of choices. Otherwise all activity might be useless.</p>
<p>What the Western World sends to Africa is an unemployment benefit. What effect does it have? It creates a dependency. It creates victim mentality. How does a person feel that completely depends on somebody&#8217;s well-willing? Good? Most people derive their self esteem from what they do themselves, with their own hands/heads. And not from gifts. So, if we really wanted to help we should be serious about helping. And this is only possible if its not US and THEM, but if we regard ourselves as equal partners in the same game.</p>
<p>However, at the moment we (the West) have way more bargaining power then the rest of the world. Some countries are quickly catching up &#8211; Brazil, India, China, Indonesia, South Africa. They are not doing well because we want it, but because they are actively creating their new futures. They chose their OWN ways. They increase their bargaining power and this way we HAVE TO listen to them even if we dont want. For the rest the rule is still on our side: its either our way or the highway.</p>
<p>The victim mentality, that we actively foster with our gifts, together with the sense of powerlessness, of not being able to change a thing creates apathy. Somebody who has been on unemployment benefits for 10 years might eventually give up looking for new things and accept the status quo. </p>
<p>What can we do? </p>
<p>The road to hell is plastered with good intentions. We should keep this in mind when we want to help. </p>
<p>Richard mentioned education (us coming to them and educating them), empowerment (locals who &#8220;made it&#8221; in the West coming back and teaching leadership to the new generations) and our awareness of what we consume (asking companies for accountability of their actions).</p>
<p>What works?</p>
<p>Education is good, but one should be careful. We bring our education, but is it the most relevant education for them? We might teach high-tech engineers who then wont have any chances to get employment back home since there is no high tech. The Chinese government recognized this problem and focuses a lot on agricultural efficiency education. Without food there can be now rise in living standards. Once you solve this problem you can begin thinking about the rest. Here the role of other developing countries is crucial &#8211; trade between China and the African countries is far more important since they are much closer regarding income levels. The West buys coffee and oil in Africa, but can Africa afford our medicine/computers/machines? </p>
<p>Empowerment is good too, but it is still too little being done. Most people prefer to stay in the West once they &#8220;made it&#8221;. Who want to go back to hopelessness? </p>
<p>Awareness &#8211; this is the most powerful tool. When it became public that Nike is producing the shoes in sweat-shops the pressure from the consumers in the West actually forced Nike to introduces social responsibility. This could work with all the other products too. The people who grow our coffee and chocolate, who sew our jeans and shirts and who make our IKEA stuff should be able to afford a decent living. They actually do a decent job. But there are only few people in the West who care about such issues.</p>
<p>Fair Trade coffee has a market share of not more than 10% in Sweden. That means that 90% of our coffee most probably was not produced under decent living conditions. And this goes for many many consumption products. When it comes to money we tend to decide rationally. And rationality here is just what is the cheapest. </p>
<p>So, if we really wanted to help lifting those countries out of poverty we should start to truly care about them. And care is not giving a gift now and then. But to respect the person as an equal trading partner. And to be prepared to pay a higher price for the stuff that brings you enjoyment in your every day life. That way, both parts might benefit equally.</p>
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		<title>Comment on True Dreams of Anarchy and Rebellion by Richard</title>
		<link>http://www.richardforreal.com/2009/09/true-dreams-of-anarchy-and-rebellion/comment-page-1/#comment-520</link>
		<dc:creator>Richard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 17:54:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks dude, I appreciate it. Anytime you end up where I have ended up on that particular day, you know there&#039;s a evening of philosophy to be had.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks dude, I appreciate it. Anytime you end up where I have ended up on that particular day, you know there&#8217;s a evening of philosophy to be had.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Free Speech by NiQ</title>
		<link>http://www.richardforreal.com/2009/10/free-speech/comment-page-1/#comment-515</link>
		<dc:creator>NiQ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 23:38:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had my speech on our overconsumption of fossil energy where I presented some alternatives.

But here is a short video on what might have led to our modern overconsuming society.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U5xJZiCbRMQ&amp;feature=player_embedded</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had my speech on our overconsumption of fossil energy where I presented some alternatives.</p>
<p>But here is a short video on what might have led to our modern overconsuming society.<br />
<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U5xJZiCbRMQ&#038;feature=player_embedded" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U5xJZiCbRMQ&#038;feature=player_embedded</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on True Dreams of Anarchy and Rebellion by NiQ</title>
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		<dc:creator>NiQ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 23:31:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well said richard, as usual.
Hope we will keep contact in the future, I think we can exchange good conversations and inspire each other in future projects.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well said richard, as usual.<br />
Hope we will keep contact in the future, I think we can exchange good conversations and inspire each other in future projects.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Becoming a Master of Dialogue by Richard</title>
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		<dc:creator>Richard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2009 20:02:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>amy: i do that every know then, just didn&#039;t know there was a word for it. being a very technical and cold individual, i would rather refer to it as &quot;brutal transparency&quot;, but i guess it&#039;s just a matter of terms.</description>
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